Hi all,
I was thinking about asking people if they could do a guest post while I was on holiday and I began to think who I could ask. I then realised who I wanted to be my first guest poster – David (my husband)!
I know I talk about him all the time so I thought it would be great for you to get to know him a bit more – I hope you enjoy his post, I certainly enjoyed reading it!
J x
Hello!
Jen asked me to do a guest post to get my perspective on something that I thought might be useful and interesting for her readers. She gave me free reign to pick any subject I wanted… so, of course, I picked CrossFit! I thought it would be interesting to give you guys a look at my journey so far with CrossFit, and the thing I’ve found the most challenging – my own head!
First of all, thought I would give you a quick background on me as I am obviously not a blogger! I work as a GIS consultant for an engineering firm. GIS involves working with, analysing and presenting data to show how it fits into the world around you. This could be rivers, roads, buildings, pollution, crime patterns… I could go on. The list is pretty much endless and I love it for that! As Jen also mentioned a few posts ago I love taking pictures and have kept a daily photo journal for the past 3 years. (LINK) I am also a total NFL nut, go Falcons!
So, getting back to the post, I’ve gone through milestones in my CrossFit journey so far. These normally relate to a mind-set I had at the time that affected how my performance in some way. I’ll break them down below, maybe you can identify with one or more with them!
1) Stop! I want to get off!
Problem – This was when I first started CrossFit. I thought I was a fairly fit person until that first day in the box and then I realised that I really wasn’t ‘functionally fit’. Yes, I could use a machine at the gym which isolated one muscle but try and use many muscles together for what I now consider a simple move, like an air squat, and I found it so difficult! It hurt, it was hard and I sucked at it! So I instinctively had that voice in my head saying “you should probably stop this!”
Solution – The only way to get past this was to just keep going. Keep going during the WOD and keep going back to the box each time, don’t quit! Through practice your technique gets better and things become automatic. I don’t really have to think about a squat anymore, my muscles just react and do it! I just needed to allow my body to adjust to these new things. Don’t give up because things are hard otherwise you will never get that amazing sense of achievement when you finally conquer them! #BestFeelingEver
2) I am going to hurt myself
Problem – When doing so many new things I was worried I would hurt myself. Bizarrely this was not as much with a massive barbell above my head but the gymnastic moves, especially handstands. Not to be sexist or anything but, generally, when me and my buddies were growing up we didn’t do a lot of handstands so at 28 years old this was a totally new experience to me!
Solution – Trust. Trust in yourself, your body and also your coach. I know our coach would NEVER do anything that could get us hurt. He often mentions “Safety first, safety second”. Once I had learnt this I just had to trust my body could do these things, getting comfortable being uncomfortable. It is a gradual process and might involve short bursts, the picture above is my first attempt at a scaled handstand push up and I was so afraid of falling off after a few seconds! Now I’ll happily fling myself against the wall and do a proper handstand for up to a minute, then the blood all goes to my head and I feel a bit squiffy! Still working on getting the full handstand push up though, but that is a strength issue not a confidence one now!
3) I just can’t go any heavier
Problem – Once I’d started to get my technique dialled in and slowly upping the weights I hit a wall whereby my brain had decided that “Nope, anything over 30kg (about 65lbs) is waaaay to much to clean and over 45kg (about 100lbs) is way too much to squat”. I got totally stuck at these weights for the longest time because I had already decided I couldn’t lift it before I had even tried!
Solution – Fail. No really, to get better you must first fail in my opinion. I found this by finding what my 1 rep max really was. It was always so much higher than I expected but because there was no pressure I could just try the ‘crazy high’ weights as I saw them and failing was ok, as long as you knew why – poor technique or really too heavy? This proved to me that if you force yourself to go beyond your comfort zone you’ll be amazed what you can actually achieve! A perfect example of this for me was for the Open 14.2 where the prescription was for 43kg overhead squats. I had never gone over 20kg before and that was really uncomfortable, how the heck was I going to go to over twice that amount??! Well, you know what, I tried it and I did it, 3 times! High fives all round!
4) If I stare at the bar long enough it will magically levitate
Problem – This is my current situation. Now I am comfortable (is that even possible in CrossFit?) using higher weights it obviously wears you out more quickly during a WOD. I have developed a nasty habit of resting far too long between reps. I think it is maybe only a few seconds, in reality it might be 20-30 seconds, that is a lot of time lost during a 7 minute AMRAP! This is something I am working on, mainly to stop our coach getting in my face shouting “pick the flipping (self-censoring!) bar up David!”
Solution – Pick the flipping bar up! No seriously! Jen has a good tactic where she actually counts down from 5 then carries on. This will give me a set, short, amount of time to recover then carry on. I will also look at the WOD on the board and work out some tactics in advance; when I could break up the reps? Maybe use the transition between two moves as a break (e.g. walking from a box jump to do wall balls might be just enough time). Are there any elements which I find easier which I should attempt to do unbroken? Just little things that might just help me!
It is easy to get bogged down in the mental side of things and kick yourself for not doing something better, faster or heavier but just remember CrossFit is supposed to be FUN! By just going back and trying again you are showing the barbell/pull up bar/wall ball who is boss and it can’t defeat you!
I hope my list helps you if you have any similar issues. One of the most amazing things I’ve discovered from CrossFit is how to apply these battles in other everyday tasks. I might be smashing barbells down, jumping on pull up rigs and bouncing wall balls at our 6.30am WOD but at work I am pretty calm guy even when things get a bit crazy with deadlines and demands, my boss has even commented on this! I am now much more comfortable trying new things in my job, trying to create new ideas or push the boundaries (in a good way!) rather than just sticking with the same old same. Ah, the wonders of CrossFit!
Phew, survived my first post, I hope you enjoyed it – time for a cup of coffee me thinks, cheers!